Saturday, May 21, 2005

Bacca

It was a beautiful day in Tchuchinsk today. Tucker and Mia played together along with all the other kids in the babyhouse, outside mostly. I shot some movie footage of some time on the swing together. If all goes well with this upload, look for a link at the right side of this blog to see the movie.

Interesting development today. We were thinking on the drive to Tchuchinsk about how it was easy for Tucker to make the transition from "Takhir" to "Tucker" because they sound similar. That's part of the reason we started using his nickname, even though his official name is Marco.

Likewise, "Mia" doesn't sound anything like Bahyt, which is pronounced more like "Bakcheut" (hard to spell because there are several sounds in the word that have no English equivalent). However, I asked whether there's a nickname for her, and apparently the name Bahyt comes with a nickname "Bacha" (hard, throat-clearing "ch" sound). It's like "Mike" for "Michael," or "Beth" for "Elizabeth." To an American ear, "Bacha" sounds a lot like "Bacca," (normal "K" sound now), which is like the short form of Rebecca. Not 'Becca, but 'Bacca. Get it?

Dunno, we're still trying it out. She answers to it when we use it, which is a distinct advantage. We'll see. For now, Tucker still likes "Mia," though he's using Bacca sometimes, too.

Stay tuned. Keep the comments/greetings coming -- they're very much appreciated. Spaciba!

Friday, May 20, 2005

And... ACTION!

Last time we did this trip, I remember spending a lot of time and energy entertaining little Takhirke. This time, we essentially chased Mia and Tucker out to the playground and turned the video camera on. Great fun! And then, at the end, Tucker cried his little eyes out when we had to leave... "I don't want to leave Mia. I want to take her with us!" he cried <sniff, gulp>.

Be sure to scroll down to see a couple of pictures for today, and read Linda's "Call and response" post about the events of the day.

-Mike

Tucker shows off for his sister

Tucker shows off for his sister

Immediately upon being dragged by the hand out onto the playground by Mia, he runs over to the climbing bar... "Hey Mia, watch what I can do!" he says... (Don't tell him, but she can do it, too).

Mia plays to the camera

Mia plays to the camera

Mia is very photo-conscious, and loves to pose for the camera -- even during snacktime.

Call and response...

Linda here. To say making this trip happen has been stressful is quite an understatement but of course again it is one of the most important things (next to adopting Tucker) I or we have ever done.

We arrived at the baby house about 3:30pm today. One of the caregivers recognized Tucker and came running over with open arms saying Takhirka, Takhirka. I forewarned Tucker about this so he took it in stride. He had earlier said "I don't like Takhir, I am not Takhir, I am Tucker". I told him he could say "please call me Tucker" - he smiled and said "I love you mama." We talked about how loving the caregivers are and this is really about how much they love you. Tucker is taking it all in, and there is a lot to take in.

We had our first real full length visit with Mia today. She is so sweet and has her name "Baghoot" translates, she is sheer "happiness". We were told Mia was not able to nap. She was so excited at the thought of seeing us. We walked in as the children were getting ready for their afternoon snack. 12 children were seated around 3 little tables for cake and milk. Following snack they were escorted one by one as they finished to the potty, then Mia grabbed Tucker's hand and led us outside. She seems to float and fly rather than walk or run. We made it out to the sandbox (no sand, just dirt) where Mia was talking nonstop and pouring dirt into cups. I started repeating what she was saying and soon we had quite a call and response going. I have no idea if what she was saying was mostly Russian, or if it was her own language. I would throw in an English phrase or two and she would repeat those. I don't think she will have any problem with the language.

After about an hour of play I was bursting and asked for a hug. I suspected I wouldn't get one but then I asked Tucker to give papa a hug, then Tucker gave Mia a hug then Tucker gave mama a hug and within a few minutes Mia was giving out kisses on the cheek. ....gotta go, Tucker wants help settling in - he needs hugs, lots of hugs

-Linda

Brother and Sister

Brother and Sister

Thursday, May 19, 2005

WE MADE IT!

Most sincere apologies to all friends and family for not being in contact until now, and who might have been worried about where we were, but schedule and various logistics prevented us from getting to any kind of internet access, and we haven't been able to buy a phone card yet. But we are now safely moved into our apartment in Kokshetau, and have already seen Mia! She is very outgoing, very talkative, and very tiny. But here’s a bit of a rundown of the events of the dayâ?|

We arrived in Almaty without event. In fact, entrance into Kazakhstan was considerably easier than it was last time we did this. The airport is not complete, everything’s shiny and new, and all our stress over declarations was for naught, since we never had to declare anything and just walked right through customs. Dilnoza, our translator, was waiting for us there, and took us to our apartment, which was quite adequate. All the necessary amenities, though a bit lacking in the way of water pressure. Meeting with the sisters was very smooth, and we took care of most of the big business of the trip, and got a rundown on the rest. No surprises ‘ we’ve been here before. Signing form after form in Russian was less intimidating this time.

Fast forward to leaving Almaty two days laterâ?| We found out that instead of taking the more adventurous direct flight from Almaty to Kokshetau, we’d be taking a more normal flight to Astana and then driving from there to Kokshetau, with a stop in (ta da!) Tschuchinsk to see Mia on the way. So that was all today. A 1-1/2 hour flight, followed by a 3-hour drive to Tchuchinsk, followed by a short visit with Mia, followed by another 1-hour drive to our home away from home in Kokshetau. But let’s take that step by stepâ?|

No need to talk about the adventurous direct flight that we didn’t take ‘ we’ll get a chance to fill you in on that on the return trip (again, we did this last time, and it’s quite a story). The flight to Astana, the capital city, was uneventful, though it was fantastic to see Sveta’s smiling face waiting for us at the airport. Sveta is our interpreter, and she was with us last trip, too. She’s amazing ‘ we are in amazingly good hands.

The drive from there to Tchuchinsk, however, was more interesting. First of all, our driver, wellâ?| he got lost (no other way to cut it). He’d never driven in the capital city before, and pulled over 4 times for directions before getting us out of the city ‘ one hour later ‘ turning a 3-hour trip into a four-hour one. Cramped car, no A/C, Tucker with us in the back seat. The road, a main thoroughfare, wouldn’t be considered passable by American standards. It was very narrow and in disrepair. There were often deep potholes around which the traffic abruptly swerved. Sometimes the road would simply turn to rubble for a while, bringing anybody not in a 4-wheel-drive vehicle to a crawl. Definitely never a lane marking, median strip, or guardrail. The road between Tchuchinsk and Kokshetau seems to have gotten worse since we were here last, too ‘ and that’s the one we have to travel twice a day for two weeks.

Soâ?| the meeting with Mia, still called Bahyt (which sounds more like ‘Bakhoot’ than ‘Baheet’ when properly pronounced, incidentally). It was fantastic, though it all happened very fast. She’s quite an amazing little girl ‘ and she and Tucker hit it off pretty well, considering the language barrier. Tucker even shared his prized Spiderman action figure (purchased in Almaty for 200 Tenge, about $1.50) with her, and she shared it back! She talked non-stop, calling it ‘scary man’ in Russian (can’t remember the word). They posed for several pictures together, and the 20-minute meeting was over. As I said, it all happened very fast. But it was late in the day, and time for dinner.

So we drove to Tchuchinsk. A very welcome dinner had been called in ahead, and was waiting for us at the ‘cottage,’ another residence in which another couple is housed right now (the Tall family, adopting two children from the same baby house). We had been in email contact prior to today, so it was nice to meet face to face. We also met Shedaiza there ‘ the woman who works with the sisters to take care of things like passports and exit visas. She also happened to know a lot about Bahyt, and we got a rundown. I won’t go into the details of that here, but it’s interesting to me that her grandfather is a very well-known mathematics professor at the university in Kokshetau, now retired ‘ and a good friend of Shedaiza herself (I’m sure I’m spelling her name wrong, BTW).

â?| so now we’re settling down for the night in our apartment. One bedroom with a pullout couch for Tucker, a kitchen, and all the amenities we need. It’s small compared to the cottage we just visited tonight, but it’s more than adequate.

One more thingâ?| Nobody knew until yesterday, or even today, that Tucker was coming with us. Everyone at the baby house is SO excited to see little Takhir (they call him Takhirke ‘ ‘little Takhir’) again. We were told that the baby house director screamed in joy when she heard. There’s also a woman there named Kunpash who was very attached to Tucker when he was there, and she’ll be at the baby house tomorrow. It is likely to be very emotional. More on that later.

OK. I’ve written this. Now to attempt to log onto the internet to send it from our apartment. Stay tunedâ?|

-Mike

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

More pictures...

Tucker at lunch in Amsterdam... in heaven at the drum store... and at the Apple Computer Store...

Leaving Amsterdam now...

Hi!

We're getting ready to leave for the airport to fly to Almaty. Our trip downtown to find a power cord was successful. Also bought food for the trip... Here are some pictures of Mama and Tucker in Amsterdam. Not sure if you can see it, but the boat in the one picture is named "Mia" -- a good omen, I'm sure.

I'll send one more post with more pictures (seems to be a three-picture limit)...

-Mike

Monday, May 16, 2005

Greetings from Amsterdam!

Hello everyone...

We arrived in Amsterdam safely and without incident yesterday. Sorry it's taken so long to tune in, but we were trying to do it cheaper by using the wireless in our room, and we had technical difficulties. You see, I tried to use our Mac laptop, which ran out of battery power. It's traditional, of course, for us to forget our power chord on such trips, so we didn't have one along. So now I'm on the hotel pay-by-the-second computer downstairs (10 Euro for 45 minutes).

Anyway, we arrived very early in the morning yesterday, local time, so we couldn't get into our hotel room. The nice Irish man behind the counter at the hotel opened up a room for us to store our luggage in, and we proceeded to go kill some time. The hotel is on the west side of Amsterdam, about 15 minutes to the center of the city, by tram. So we bought two 48-hour tram tickets and made our way out. We purposely did not come completely prepared for cold temperatures, so we had to improvise a little since it was about 45-50 degrees here, and damp. But we were OK. So we went into the city and checked things out, including a 1-hour boat ride on the canals of the city (in a nice, warm boat). We also found out that it's not easy to stop into a coffee shop in Amsterdam when you've got a 3-year-old with you, because most coffee shops are "smoking", and have an age limit.

By the time we made it back to the hotel, we were pretty bushed. Tucker crashed on the Tram on the way home. We took a nap 'till about 6 PM and then headed back into town on the tram again to check out the "night life". Yes, of course we went to the red light district. It's not uncommon to see kids there, by the way. No age limit here.

Today, it was more of the same, after a really good night's sleep for all of us. I personally slept longer in one stretch than I have since the beginning of the school year. Heh.

Amsterdam is a fantastic city. Some of my favorite highlights are:
* THOUSANDS of bicycles
* Great public transportation -- and everyone USES it.
* Great food (and reasonably priced if you search)
* Friendly people (almost everyone speaks English, too)
* Many, many nationalities.
* A free spirit.

I do love the spirit of this city. I, personally, am not likely to make use of things like prostitutes in display cases on the street coffee shops with marijuana menus, but I do care that there are places where such things CAN exist. I'm having fun with Dutch, too. Sometimes I can almost read it -- very much like German in a lot of ways.

Tucker is loving all of it. He loves the tram ride, really digs his "Jeep" stroller (what were we THINKING when we considered not taking it?!). And is a constant stream of questions. It's fantastic fun, and I can feel him exploding already. He always grows at an incredible rate whenever we travel. ... and, yes, right now he's still healthy, though he's still got a little sniffle and very slight occasional cough. So far, so good...

Tomorrow, we get up a little earlier to prepare to leave, and head into the city again to try and get that power chord we forgot. (Couldn't get it today because of a holiday). Then we get on a plane to Almaty in the afternoon. We arrive there in the wee hours of the morning, and will be there for two days before we board another plane to complete our journey to Kokshetau and actually see Mia for the first time.

We will be in contact again as soon as possible via email. I'm guessing we won't do much in the way of phone communication at all, but we'll see.

Wishing everyone all the best. Feel free to email. We will get it, eventually.

Once we get settled, I'll try to send pictures.

Love, Mike (and Linda, and Tucker)